Finding Your “Why” Again As a Military Veteran. (Life After The Army Didn’t Make Sense & It Almost Killed Me.)
Why Transitioning Is Tough for Veterans
Leaving the military isn’t just about trading one job for another—it’s about stepping into a whole new way of life. Its scary to think about: the routines, the sense of purpose, and the camaraderie that gave your life structure are suddenly gone. And that can feel overwhelming.
I’ve been there. As a veteran, I know how easy it is to feel lost, stuck, or unsure of what’s next. You go from being part of something bigger than yourself to feeling like you’re navigating this new world solo.
That’s exactly why I created The 1 Approach System—to give veterans like us a clear roadmap for rediscovering purpose and thriving in civilian life.
The Importance of Finding Your “Why”
In the military, you always had a mission. Whether big or small, you knew your role, your purpose, and how you contributed. Once you transition, that clarity can feel like it’s been ripped away.
But here’s the thing: your “why” isn’t gone—it just needs to be rediscovered.
Cool Quotes That Helped Me:
“When you reconnect with your purpose, you reconnect with yourself.” – Coach Mo
Did You Know?
Studies show that 55% of veterans struggle with finding a sense of purpose after leaving the military. Source
My Story: Life After Military Service
When I left the military, I didn’t know what the next chapter would look like. I couldn’t even wrap my head around what the next day would look like. I had imagined serving my complete 20 years of service and retiring afterwards. But, life hit me like a ton of bricks- I started losing brothers in arms to suicide. I found my “why” for a few weeks- then lost it all over again, and that record kept repeating and repeating. I finally had the courage to leave my environments, habits, routines, and views on life behind- moved close to the beach and eventually bought my 30-foot Jayco Class C RV, with my service dog Loki by my side and hit the road to figure it out. I realized a lot of my strengths that I gained over the years in the service were obsolete in the civilian world. No one is asking you to build a bridge, jump out of helicopters, play with c-4 explosive, or what to do if you get hit by an IED (Improvised Explosive Device).
Over time, I visited over 100 cities, camped in national forests, stayed at breweries, wineries, cafe’s, VFW’s, gas stations, rest areas, beaches, and even parked at alpaca, dairy, mushroom, and cranberry farms. Along the way, I met countless people with stories that changed my perspective and outlook on life. I had to take the spotlight off of me for awhile and shine it on someone or something else. Which led me to becoming even more grateful for who I was and where I was in life.
This journey wasn’t just about travel—it was about understanding myself, my triggers, and my strengths. It was about finding a way forward without the structure I was used to. I had to find a new system to handle life out here.
I realized I wasn’t the only veteran or person feeling this way. So I created a system that helps veterans transition into civilian life with confidence, clarity, and purpose- based on my stressful and overwhelming experiences trying to find my place in this civilian world.
How The 1 Approach System Can Help You
The 1 Approach System isn’t just a bunch of lessons—it’s a practical, step-by-step guide to rebuilding your purpose and creating a fulfilling civilian life. It has not only helped me, but numerous veterans and mogressive clients alike.
Here’s how it helps:
1. Rediscover Your Purpose
We’ll help you reconnect with what matters most to you. What gets you out of bed in the morning? What kind of impact do you want to make? Who and Where are you in life?
Inspiring Quote:
“You don’t need permission to live your purpose—you just need to find it.” – Coach Mo
Did You Know?
Veterans who take time to define their goals experience 35% greater life satisfaction. Source
2. Build Real Confidence
Transitioning to civilian life can knock the wind out of your sails. The 1 Approach System gives you tools to break out of self-doubt, face challenges head-on, and start trusting yourself again.
Did You Know?
People with high confidence are 50% more likely to achieve their goals. Source
Inspiring Quote:
“Confidence is built one small win at a time.” – Unknown
3. Create Your Roadmap
The civilian world doesn’t come with a mission plan or an Op order, but The 1 Approach System will help you create one. Whether it’s setting goals, building a routine, or aligning your actions with your values, we’ll create a plan that works for you starting right now.
Did You Know?
Veterans who use goal-setting systems report 40% improved life satisfaction. Source
Inspiring Quote:
“A good plan today beats a perfect plan tomorrow.” – Waltzon’s Law
4. Grow Resilience
Life after service is unpredictable, but resilience helps you adapt and thrive. The 1 Approach System gives you the tools to bounce back and keep moving forward.
Inspiring Quote:
“Resilience is the difference between surviving and thriving.” – Coach Mo
Why Mogressive Is Made for Veterans
At Mogressive, we get it because I’ve been there. The struggles, the questions, the doubts—you’re not alone. My mission is to guide veterans to rediscover their “why,” build confidence, and create a life filled with purpose and fulfillment. Because we all deserve to be happy especially when you put your life on the line and fought for freedom.
My Life Is My Message
I’ve experienced the highs and lows of transitioning to civilian life. I know what it’s like to feel lost, unsure, and disconnected. But I also know that with the right tools, mindset, and support, it’s possible to rebuild your life with purpose, clarity, and confidence.
That’s what I want for you—or the veteran in your life. Let’s work together to create a fulfilling new chapter.
Ready to Find Your Why Again For Good?
📘 Download My Free Ebook: The 1 Approach System
🚀 Explore My 6-Week Course: The Jumpstart “Be The One”
⚡Checkout My Advanced Course: 12 Week Fearless
You’re not alone in this journey. Let’s take the first step together.
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Transitioning out of the military can feel overwhelming, but you’re not alone. Rediscover your purpose, rebuild confidence, and create a fulfilling civilian life with The 1 Approach System.